“The more you fear, the more you fail”
It’s not an obscure but a clear fact that confidence is the key to success. When it comes to dating, the importance of confidence increases even more. Confidence! Confidence! Confidence! How to be confident at least? Confidence is neither a purchasable item nor could it be transplanted. However, there are some keys that could really help an individual to attain immense confidence. So, here are the 5 keys to confidence but remember they can just show you the way, you’re the one who has to walk over it.
Before starting let’s get familiar with something really helpful. “The worst case scenario.” Imagine what’s the worst that could happen. Will she throw you behind the bars? Or will you lose your job? I don’t think so. Worst case that could happen is that she might not approve or decline you. So what? There are a lot of women on earth and they are not hidden treasures but easy to find. Anyways, let’s start
Key #1 Be prepared
Optimize yourself to look nice, neat and tidy. Get yourself a good hairstyle. Well dressing automatically gives a sense of confidence. Avoid being unclassy and avoid cheap clothes and deodorants. Also avoid bathing in deodorants, over accessories (unless you’re a Goth) and over funk (unless you’re a punk)
Key #2 Walk Tall
Maintain your body posture. Keep the shoulder erect while sitting and walking. Don’t bow your back and walk slowly avoiding haste. Good body posture reflects confidence as well as good outlook that help in feeling confident.
Key #3 Be Fearless
Being prepared with good body posture is very likely to catch the eye of women. Now women might give a look or even stare. It’s kinda obvious for a guy to hesitate to know that a woman or a hot woman is looking or staring at him. Whether women want it or not but they scare many guys. Don’t be scared here or everything would go in vain. Instead don’t counter-stare her. It also shows that you’re not the one in desperate need.
Key # 4 Who’s the Man
We are the men! We are the dominant leaders. It’s kinda strange for a man to be afraid of women. Also be aware of the fact that at times, even women are afraid of men. So be a man and show her who’s the man.
Key #5 Who cares?
Oh boy, an ultra hot woman is in front of men! Who cares?
Oh boy, what if she rejects me? Who cares?
Oh oh boy, what if I mess up, Right, who cares?
Just think like ‘who cares’ and feel like you don’t give any concern to it. This, by far is the most powerful tool to confidence as it releases the pressure from the mind and you can act freely and smoothly